Why DMs Beat Comment Threads for Closing Coaching Deals
A 2024 Forbes Agency Council piece notes that direct messaging “consistently outperforms comment-based outreach for high-ticket conversions” because conversations stay personal and distraction-free.
Executives appreciate discretion; private dialogue lets them explore sensitive growth gaps without broadcasting them to the entire feed.
The Five-Step Funnel
Stage | Objective | Sample Line | Tool |
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1. Spark | Move the conversation from post to DM. | “Hey Sarah, thanks for the ❤️ on my delegation Reel. What resonated most?” | Quick reaction + name drop |
2. Engage | Confirm relevance; add micro-value. | “Totally get it. Here’s a 2-sentence tip I share with new VPs…” | Saved replies |
3. Diagnose | Uncover the real obstacle. | “Curious, what’s holding your team back from hitting targets right now?” | Voice note for warmth |
4. Deliver Micro-Win | Prove expertise. | “Try this 3-question agenda in your next one-on-one. Let me know how it goes.” | PDF snippet or short Loom |
5. Invite | Bridge to call or mini-offer. | “If you want a deeper blueprint, I have two slots for a 20-min strategy call this week. Want a link?” | Calendly + follow-up reminder |
Coach’s Tip: Steps 2-4 should feel like a helpful chat, not a script. Adapt tone to the client’s energy.
Crafting Messages That Land in ‘Primary,’ Not ‘Requests’
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Personalize first line (use their name + a post detail).
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Keep to 3-4 short sentences, long texts trigger skim-and-ghost.
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One clear CTA per message (question or link, not both).
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Use voice notes strategically to convey warmth and credibility.
Automate Without Sounding Robotic
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Saved Reply Packs: Build templates for each stage, then tweak names and details.
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Quick Reactions: The 💡 or 🙌 emoji prefaces a value reply faster than typing “Thanks!”
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Labels in Instagram Inbox: Tag conversations as Spark/Engage/Diagnose to see where prospects drop.
Tracking the Funnel
Metric | Healthy Benchmark | How to Measure |
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Post-to-DM rate | ≥ 5 % of post engagers | Insights → Interactions |
DM reply rate | ≥ 35 % | Inbox labels |
Call bookings per 10 qualified DMs | 1–2 | Calendly source tag |
Close rate from booked calls | 30 %+ | CRM |
Review weekly; tighten or expand questions at Stage 3 if reply rate dips.
Common Pitfalls & Quick Fixes
Pitfall | Impact | Fix |
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Jumping to sales pitch at first DM | Prospect ghosts | Offer bite-size advice first |
Sending PDF before diagnosing | Feels generic | Ask one clarifying question |
Using “Hey girl/bro” slang | Undermines authority | Mirror their language level |
Your Next Action
Open yesterday’s post insights, DM the last ten people who liked or saved it, and run them through Steps 1-3. You’ll spot who’s coach-ready by dinner.
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