7 Proven Connection Request Templates That Get Accepted on LinkedIn

A generic “I’d like to add you” request lands in the void. Stand out with a message that references something meaningful and earns a reply and a connection, every time.

1. “Alumni Bond” Template

When to use: You share a school or program.
Template:

“Hi [Name], I saw we both graduated from [University/Program]. I’m a business coach helping alumni scale their consultancies, would love to connect and share insights.”
Why it works: Common background builds instant trust.

2. “Comment-to-Connection” Template

When to use: You’ve engaged with their content.
Template:

“Hi [Name], I enjoyed your post on [Topic] your point about [Specific Detail] resonated. I coach founders on that exact challenge; would love to connect!”
Why it works: Shows genuine engagement, not mass outreach.

3. “Event Follow-Up” Template

When to use: You met at a webinar or conference.
Template:

“Hi [Name], great to virtually meet you at [Event]. Your question about [Issue] stuck with me. I help coaches resolve that, let’s connect!”
Why it works: Reinforces shared experience and positions you as a solution.

4. “Mutual Group Member” Template

When to use: You’re in the same LinkedIn group.
Template:

“Hi [Name], We’re both active in [Group Name]. I’d love to exchange brainpower on scaling coaching businesses, mind if we connect?”
Why it works: Leverages community affinity and reciprocity.

5. “Resource Share” Template

When to use: You have a valuable asset to offer.
Template:

“Hi [Name], I created a free 5-step “Client Attraction” PDF that’s helped 100+ coaches. Can I send you the link?”
Why it works: Gives value first, prompting acceptance.

6. “Referral Mention” Template

When to use: You share a mutual connection.
Template:

“Hi [Name], [Mutual Contact] suggested I reach out, they thought my work on [Topic] might interest you. Mind if we connect?”
Why it works: Warm intro via a trusted third party.

7. “Industry Insight” Template

When to use: You’ve spotted a trend they care about.
Template:

“Hi [Name], I noticed you’re discussing [Trend]. I just published data on how that impacts coaches care to connect?”
Why it works: Positions you as a timely expert and invites dialogue.

Closing & Next Steps

Pick two templates that fit your audience this week. Track acceptance rates and refine the wording based on responses. Next up: “Generate Warm Leads with LinkedIn Polls, Carousels & Videos.”